


Healing. 🤍
"She set her boundaries and rebuilt her life." - Cara Alwill Leyba
1. Don’t try to read other peoples’ minds and don’t expect others to be able to read yours. Communicate if it is important to you.
2. Don’t expect to be friends with everyone. We all are different – and we all like different things. Instead, invest your time in a few good friends. That’s all you really need to feel happy and fulfilled.
3. Create a budget and live within your means. Accruing debt will only cause you to feel stressed.
4. Get rid of the monster of jealousy – and only compare yourself with yourself.
5. Organize your clutter and get rid of some stuff. It will leave you feeling calmer, and will save you lots of time.
6. Stay on the sidelines and don’t get drawn into pointless dramas in other peoples’ lives.
7. Finish what you’ve started - and then do something else.
8. Treat every person you meet with respect, and err on the side of being patient and kind.
9. Accept there are things that you can’t change or control – and focus on those things that you can change or control.
10. Don’t be too proud to apologise. Admit that you were wrong, then say you’re sorry, and move on.
"Travel and tell no one. Live a true love story and tell no one. Live happily and tell no one. People ruin beautiful things." - Khalil Gibran
"Unless you know who you are, you will always be vulnerable to what people say." - Phil McGraw
eternal vastness
by matialonsor

Back when I was way younger, I used to dream about myself flying all the way up to the sky. I never felt so happy and amazed. But now, whenever I try to fly in my dreams, I always fell, like my whole body was dragging me down, so heavy that even jumping was so hard. Was it because I was so carefree back then? And now I’m just so full of anxiety about things that always weighs me down?
"When you are your own best friend, you don’t endlessly seek out relationships, friendships, and validation from the wrong sources because you realize that the only approval and validation you need is your own." - Mandy Hale
“Someone I loved deeply once told me that the absolute refusal to ask for help even when you’re in agony is rooted in trauma and we have been conditioned to look at it as strength.”
— Nikita Gill